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Who Would Join Me On This?

A couple years ago I used to read a blog by a foster parent, who wrote about her daily adventures. Around the time when I first started reading, she suddenly got a placement of three children between the ages of 2 and 8. She desperately needed things like a crib, bedding, car seats, etc... and she didn't have any money... and although I guess it is possible that the foster care agency may have eventually reimbursed her for these things, at the time she didn't have enough cash to get everything she needed for the kids. A lot of blog readers came through and either donated money or purchased things for her that she could pick up at her local Wal-Mart. I've heard of several different stories like this, where fellow bloggers helped out people in crisis. So I was thinking, it would be cool to sort of organize something, like a Bloggers Emergency Fund of some sort!

I was planning it all out yesterday while I was supposed to be paying attention in my US Politics class. Here is what I came up with...

• Anyone who is interested in being a part of it could give me their email address and blog address, so they could be on my sidebar (I'll probably make a separate blog for this venture if I really do it) and so they could be on an email list to be contacted whenever there is a collection being taken.
• If you get contacted and you want to donate a few bucks or participate in some other way, you just do it, and you can also sign a Mr. Linky thing on the blog that will show how many people are participating.
• It would be mostly for bloggers that are having pressing emergency needs. For instance, a blogger's house has burned down and they need XYZ, or a blogger becomes seriously ill and needs XYZ. It would be best if they needed something specific, such as money to pay an electricity bill, or money to buy a specific crib from a store, or whatever.
• The reason it is for bloggers is because there is more trust there. If you can go to someone's blog and read about the past year of their life and about their kids and everything, then you'll feel better helping out with money when the person desperately needs money to refill their son's asthma medication or something. Whereas if it is just some random person emailing us and saying, "Please help," you can't be as sure!
• It can also extend to non-bloggers if a blogger recommends them, for instance if you have a neighbor or a friend or someone who needs help.

Here's an example scenario...

Petra is a blogger who writes about life as a single mother to five-year-old Jason, who has speech delays and goes to a special preschool program and to speech therapy each week. Lately Petra has written that she's having some financial problems making ends meet because her insurance isn't paying as much of Jason's speech therapy, and because Jason had pneumonia last month and she had to take a week off of work to stay home with him. Then one day Petra writes that her car has broken down and needs a new... Hmm I dunno, what breaks down in a car? A starter? That sounds bad, right? She has barely any cash in her account right now, she can't drive, so she's been paying a cab to take her to work and to take Jason to school and therapy, but its costing an arm and a leg, and she might have to take another few days off of work, and she's getting DESPERATE!!!

Another blogger, who we'll call Jayne, emails me through my new relief fund blog, telling me about Petra.

I put an email out to everyone who has signed up to be contacted, asking them if they can throw something in the hat to help Petra. People can also forward the emails, write about it in their blogs, etc. Whoever decides to help can sign the Mr. Linky on my blog. Most likely people would be making PayPal donations to Jayne, although if Jayne doesn't want to take that responsibility I could do it. Quickly we raise $250 to send to Petra so she can get her car fixed.

And here's another idea... what if we could go even further, by contacting a few reputable car repair places near where Petra lives, and offering them a certain amount of blog posts and links in exchange for a discount for Petra's car repair? We could say, "You'll have 50 people blogging about you, using your name, the name of your company, the name of your town, and the fact that you're helping a blogger out." In this case lets say a repair shop offers to take off the cost of labor, leaving Petra with an extra $100 to offset the cost of all of those taxi rides!

Does it sound beautiful? Or am I just still crazy from being unmedicated!

Is This Kitty Hypnotizing Pufferfish?

There is something strange about this kitten! Pufferfish found this video on KidZui, and she watches it constantly! I mean, constantly! She can't take her eyes off of it! What is going on here?

Naughty Or Nice?

While attempting to amuse Pufferfish last night, I found this little game where you can find out if Santa thinks you're naughty or nice. You enter your name, and then spin a wheel, and it gives you your answer! (Don't worry, I think the answer is always "Nice" or "Very Nice!" Rafael was particularly amused by this. He wanted to make sure I told his mother, because he figured she wouldn't believe that Santa thought he was Very Nice!

I haven't showed the kids this one yet, but a more complicated version of this is Santa's Good List. It has a quiz of specific multiple-choice questions about your behavior, like "What do you do if you don't like what you're having for dinner," and "How often do you help out with chores?" Then, it tells you that it will recommend you to Santa for the Good List, if you promise to improve on a few things. You also get a chance to enter your wishes. then Santa sends you an email, giving you access to hisGood List, where you get to flip through and find your name as the most recent addition!

Just thought I'd share these things, in case you find yourself trying to entertain restless munchins as Christmas gets closer!

A Meme I Stole.

I'm just in the mood for a meme today, so I jacked this one from Snarky Mom.
1. What do you add to your coffee? I don't generally like coffee, but if I do drink it, I like vanilla creamer!2. What are you reading now? Everything Asian, by Sung J Woo3. Do you own a gun? Nope
4. Are you registered to vote? Yes5. Do you get nervous before doctor appointments? Yes, very, because I hate to be touched by strangers!
6. What do you think of hot dogs? I like them with mustard. Hold the ketchup! This is Chicago!
7. Favorite Christmas Song? Silent Night
8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning? Dr. Pepper.
9. Can you do push ups? Noooooo!10. What was the name of your first boyfriend/girlfriend? I think it was Brian! (I was 10)
11. What’s your favorite piece of jewelry? The heart locket with the kids' pictures inside!
12. Favorite hobby? Reading and blogging (just like snarky Mom!) Also arts and crafts.
13. Do you work with people who idolize you? I suppose Little Bear idolizes me some of the time... although definitely not always!
14. Do you have ADD? Yes! Yes I do! Thanks for asking!
15. What’s one trait that you hate about yourself? I get tired very easily!
16. What’s your Middle name? Marie.
17. Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment. I'm hungry. I have to pee. Lily pooped on the floor and I had to put her in her cage and I think that hurts me more than it hurts her!
18. Name 3 things you bought yesterday.Candy, silly string, a pop. (Don't ask...)
19. Name 3 beverages you regularly drink. Dr. Pepper. Milk. Kool-Aid!
20. Current worry right now? Will this stinking puppy ever be potty trained?21. What size do you dress to?  Uh, what does that mean?22. Favorite place to be? The beach in the summer! Or disney world!
23. How did you bring in the New Year? A riproaring party at Tigerlily's parents' house! We slept over!
24. Where would you like to go? Italy.
25. Name three people who will complete this. nobody
26. Whose answers do you want to read the most? Anyone with the time to answer it.27. What color shirt are you wearing? dark pink hoodie
28. Do you like sleeping on satin sheets? Hmm, never tried it!
29. Can you whistle? yes30. Favorite colors(s)? Red and Purple31. Could you be a pirate? I always wanted to be! But I couldn't kill people.
32. What songs do you sing in the shower? These days, probably something from Pufferfish's Wee Sing tape, which is stuck in my head!
33. Favorite girls name? Emily34. Favorite boy’s name? Jeremy35. What’s in your pocket right now?  chapstick, money, driver's license, library card, food stamp card
36. Last thing that made you laugh? The puppy had a dingleberry on her butt!
37. Best bed sheets as a child? Tie dye!38. Worst injury you’ve ever had?  Busted my head open on Dez's car and had to get staples!
39. Do you love where you live? I love  my house. I like this town okay.. I wish I lived near mountains or the ocean or any other form of nature, though.
40. How many TVs do you have in your house? 4-one in the basement, one in the front room, one in the back room, and one in Monkeyboy's room.
41. Who is your loudest friend? Probably Diana!!!42. How many dogs do you have? two at this house, one at my mom's.
43. Does anyone have a crush on you? Hmm! I dunno!
44. What are the most fun things you ever did? A disney cruise, disney world (both with my mom), going to six flags, swimming in the ocean, camping on the beach, swimming in the river, hiking in the redwoods, the Peace Festival.
45. What are your favorite books? I love Jodi Picoult books these days... but I love all books!46. What is your favorite candy? kit-Kats47. Favorite Team? What sport? White sox. and baseball.
48. What songs do you want played at your funeral? "Ripple" by the Grateful Dead, "Follow the sun" by the Beatles.
49. What were you doing at 12 AM? Sleeping.50. What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up? Hey where is my phone?

I Got Another Award! I Am So Cool!

Hi everyone! Its late and I don't have too much to say right now. Plus I have a bad stomachache because of JIMMY! LOL... just kidding,.. it is only partially his fault because he brought me a big old glass of chocolate milk, which I cannot resist, despite the fact that I am lactose intolerant! As soon as I took a sip of that stuff, I could already feel my stomachache coming on. But I went ahead and chugged it, like an idiot! Then I told Little Bear that Jimmy was trying to kill me, and Little Bear ran up the stairs shouting, "Jimmy, how could you try to kill Nicki!"

At any rate... the award I got is the Friendly Blogger Award, and it was passed along to me by Corrie from Just Because My Pickle Talks Doesn't Make Me An Idiot. Corrie is a new blogger friend of mine, who I met back in October when Tanya from Teen Autism gave me the Lemonade Award! I love getting awards! The hardest part of getting awards, though, is choosing people to pass it along to. I read a pretty small circle of blogs, so I'm pretty sure there are a handful of bloggers that I just keep foisting awards upon!

At any rate, I think I am going to give this Friendly Blogger Award to Tanya, because she is one of the most friendly bloggers I've met! She is very friendly to me... she always comments on my posts, she ordered one of my books, and she helped out my young friend Tory who was raising money for foster care. She's also friendly to the rest of the world. She often finds herself in a position where she must advocate for her son, Nigel, who has autism. But she grasps this opportunity to make the world a little more friendly, for Nigel and for others with special needs, by being friendly and explaining autism to others. So, Tanya, sorry to do this to ya, but here is the Friendly Blogger Award!

I looked up the rules to this award. It was hard to do, since apparently most bloggers no longer post the rules for this! But I thought I'd do it. Here are the rules I found:

1. Take a Photo or install one now .
2. Do not change clothes,do not trim the hair, the main image is to be captured (we want to see the real you...he..he..) .
3. Post a picture that is in edit.
4. Post these instructions (required).
5. Tag people to show appreciation to them that touch your heart because of their friendly attitude (required).

 So, here is the most recent picture of me...

That is me and Pufferfish on a flying ride at the pumpkin farm! It was taken just a few days ago! Pufferfish looks so happy, doesn't she?

OK! That is all! I will see you tomorrow!
 

We Made It Friday Showcase: Glow In The Dark Paintings!

I've been mysteriously missing from We Made It Friday Showcase for quite a few weeks... first because I didn't have Internet access at home, and then because I was just too busy. But here I am, excited to show you the glow in the dark paintings we made for our Outer Space Week! I bought Tulip brand glow in the dark fabric paints. They're meant for fabric, obviously, but they also worked very well on construction paper! You have to hold these paintings up to a light for a few seconds, and then they glow very well. These pictures, though, were taken in daylight.

Little Bear made this one...

and this one, which is a little harder to see...

Pufferfish made this one, which is much harder to see. It still glows at night though.

What do you think of that?

 
 
 

When Life Hands You Lemons...

OMG, everyone, I've gotten a blogging award from Tanya over at Teen Autism! This award is given to bloggers who seem to have a great attitude and make the best of things! Tanya is one of my favorite blogger friends... I wish I could give the award back to her! (But then she'd have to find ten more people to give it to, and that might be a lot of work!) I am very honored to have this award, and I know tons of other bloggers who should get it! It's going to be hard to choose ten, but here it goes...

1. Makenna And Camille!  I first found this blog when I was looking for information on CHARGE Syndrome, because I was scheduled to work at the CHARGE Syndrome Conference. I actually met Makenna, who is a sweet and spunky eight year old and an excellent big sister as well, at the conference, and I've been following this blog ever since. Makenna's mother is working hard to ensure that CHARGE Syndrome doesn't prevent Makenna from living a full life and having lots of adventures!

2. PADS Chicago! This is one most of you probably haven't come across. Some of you may know that I was homeless for several years, and I often stayed at a local overnight shelter called PADS. This blog is by a woman who stays at PADS now. She writes about homelessness, what causes it and what it causes, and how everyday people can reach out to homeless people.

3.Asperger Square 8. Bev is an adult with Aspergers Syndrome. She writes extensively about human rights for people with autism. You may or may not agree with her opinions on how some agencies that claim to help people with autism actually hurt them. But you'll definitely enjoy the eye-opening, truthful videos she creates to show how absurdly many people view and treat those with autism!

4. The Quirk Factor: Resistance Is Futile! This mom blogger writes about her spirited little boy, Jaysen, who has PDD_NOS. Not long ago, their entire house burned down, and it also caused their car to blow up! This little family was displaced for a while, but they stuck together and managed to get through it and make a normal life for themselves again!

5. Stimeyland! This SAHM has her hands full with three very spirited and adventurous little guys, one of whom has autism! Stimey amuses the world with her stories of her boys and their antics. In the summer I always enjoy reading about Camp Stimey, where she creates her own little summer camp to provide structure, stimulation and fun for the boys while they're out of school.

6. Baggage And Bug! I probably pass an award along to this blogger every chance I get, because I love her blog so much! Baggage is my hero! Battling depression, anxiety, ADHD, and physical illness might cause some people to hide away in their homes and spend their lives watching TV under a quilt... but not Baggage! She instead chose to open her home, by adopting one "hard-to-place" kid from foster care and providing a wonderful foster family for several others. Baggage has definitely been through her share of trials and tribulations... but her love for Bug, Bubba, Snowbaby and the other children she cares for seems to carry her through.

7. Zip 'n' Tizzy! The nicknames of these two little boys, ages 5 and 3, illustrate how nutty this household can get! But who can help falling in love with these sweet, funny little boys... and with TIzzy's best buddie, Doggie!

8. The Karianna Spectrum! Here's another mama raising little boys, one of whom has autism. The Cat and Spliggle are definitely a couple of little characters! I've loved reading this blog and watching these two awesome boys grow! The Cat, especially, has changed so much in the past few years, as he's learned more and more how to control his own behavior and to navigate the social world of primary school!

9. Big Blueberry Eyes! This blog is named for Kayla, whose beautiful eyes have been described this way. Kayla, who has Down Syndrome, has a little brother named Lucas, a mother who loves her like crazy, and a daddy (who also loves her like crazy, of course) who is in the AIr Force and is currently deployed.

10. Gabi's World!  Shannon blogs about life in her big, happy blended family... which includes Gabi, a sweet kid with Down Syndrome who also has a huge fear of lawnmowers, a silly sense of humor, and a sneaky sense of mischief!

Okay, thats my ten people!

It actually took me twenty-four hours to finish this post because I had to keep stopping to do other things... and now that I am hitting "Publish" I'm sure it will take me another twenty-four hours to go to everyone's sites and tell them I've given them the award... but its worth it! :)

We've Enrolled In Tot School!

It seems like, in the past, I've planned most of our activities with Little Bear in mind. Pufferfish has just been a tag-along, participating however she could in the things that Little Bear did. But Pufferfish is getting bigger now, and she's so smart. I thought that, now that Little Bear is in school all day, I could start focusing more on activities for Pufferfish.

So I was browsing the Internet searching for ideas for projects to do with toddlers, and I stumbled upon Tot School! Tot School is the brainchild of Carisa, who mainly blogs at 1+1+1=1. She came up with a way of, basically, beginning to homeschool her toddler, and she also came up with a way for others to share the things they do with their tiniest "students." Every Sunday, participants link up to the Tot School blog.

And this brings me to my first Tot School post!

Our theme for this week was Transportation, but I also decided to introduce Pufferfish to a Letter Of The Week... an idea I borrowed from No Time For Flashcards. So on the first day, I got a yellow posterboard and cut out a giant letter A, so I could, literally, introduce it to Pufferfish.

 

The A basically hung out with us all week. It played Hide And Seek with all of the kids the other day (they took turns hiding it) but mostly it just lounged around. Here it is sleeping in Pufferfish's doll's bed!

 

That first day, we made Alligator A's, an idea I also stole from No Time For Flashcards, 

 

I also free-handed this picture of an Ant, which Pufferfish colored while I told her the Letter A story from Jolly Phonics. (I remember the stories for a few of the letters from when I worked in a school, but I'm gonna have to check out the book from the library soon to find out the rest!)

 

As you can see, Pufferfish got a little crazy with the googly eyes here!

Another day, we focused  more on our transportation theme. We used toy cars and paint to make tire tracks on paper, and then we had a mini-carwash so the girls could wash the paint off their cars. (Tigerlily spent that day with us, so she got a healthy dose of Tot School too!)

 

 

Two of the cars, which I got from the Dollar Store, came with a little roll-out road mat that you could drive cars on, so the girls played with that for a while too.

Then, revisiting our A theme, we glued Cheerios onto paper to form A's!

 

Today I was feeling kind of sick, and Pufferfish was cranky, so it was more of a lazy day. I did teach Pufferfish a version of Red-Light-Grreen-Light. I cut out a green circle and a red stop sign, and Pufferfish ran across the living room, running when I held up the green circle and stopping when I held up the stop sign! she caught on pretty quick... although when it was her turn to hold the circles, she had more trouble, because she kept on holding them both up!

I also made some construction paper stencils. Here's a truck Pufferfish colored with a truck stencil I made...

 

and one she watercolored with an A stencil.

But most of the day, I spent trying to get her to lay in bed with me while I read her as many stories as she wanted!

So that concludes the first week of Tot School! Not bad, considering I threw the week of activities together with stuff I aleady had around the house! Next week we're going to learn about farms and the letter B!

Commercial Break: Check Out ShopWiki

The school year has started, and since Little Bear and Rafael are in school most of the day now, I've been lookin for some extra kids to take care of along with Pufferfish! As it is, I watch Rafael every day after school. And I might have two-year-old twin girls coming once a week, starting next week! Tigerlily joins us too, once in a while. It would be really nice to find just one more kid, maybe a three or four year old, to watch full-time.

Anyway, if I start watching more kids, I thought I might use some of the money to buy some extra toys to put out. I'd probably stash them away, and take them out only during child care hours, to make them more exciting and enticing for Little Bear and Pufferfish. I'd especially like to find a few "boy toys" for Rafael, who is the only boy in the house under the age of 12, and who often feels surrouned by girls!

I started looking on Shopwiki for some new toys and games, and I found some good ones! I liked the Chase And Race game, which seems a little like Candy Land but more fast-paced for slightly older kids, and the I Spy Eagle Eye game. Great choices to keep Little Bear and Rafael busy after school!  I also found a whole bunch of different kinds of blocks and building sets, which I think would be perfect gender-and-age-neutral toys for all of the kids to play with together. I also looked at some toy chests, organizational items and furniture for the playroom. I'd love for Pufferfish to have a little rocking chair like the one she loves to sit in at the library. And I love those interactive rugs like you sometimes see in day care centers and preschools! Finally, I checked out heir extensive offering of children's books

The cool thing about ShopWiki is that they don't get paid for selling the items. They get paid for showing ads on the site. So, they dispay just about everything on the Internet... .not just the products that givee them kickbacks for selling them!

Anyway, I'll have to see how much money I end up making, before I start counting my proverbial chickens. But if I am able to afford a few extra things, I'll definitely be returning to ShopWiki!

Vote for my wish!

Just a quick note... I've made a wish on Greedyorneedy.com! If enough people vote for it, I could win $100 towards my trip to the CHADD Conference! There's only three days left to vote for this month, so if you get a chance, please check out my wish and vote for me! Thanks!